1) A1: Approach (30 seconds long)
2) Goal: Approach a group and start a conversation with a set**
3) A1 ends once you’ve engaged in conversation. Once you’ve got that, move to A2**
a) Peacocking – Use of flashy clothing to attract women
b) 3 Second Rule – Approach target or set within 3 seconds of entering a venue
i) No longer than the first minute and a half
c) Neg - An accidental insult wrapped in a compliment with the intent of demonstrating lack of interest in a girl
d) Opener or opinion opener – Jealous G/F, 80’s dog, dental floss, cologne
e) False Time Constraint – “I can only stay a minute.”*
f) Body Language – Use body rocking so it appears you’re about to leave
g) Smile on approach**
h) Have canned openers ready
i) Make them short to hold their attention and not ruin your value*
ii) Be original
i) Convey minimal interest*
i) Go in between 45-90 degrees
(1) From side/over shoulder
(a) Don’t approach from behind*
(i) After 30 seconds face them
ii) Initiate chat with dismissive body language
j) Stack openers***
i) Opening consists of a neutral opener, false time constraint and a neg
ii) Openers are just to initiate chat, only meant to get two strangers talking
k) Indirect approach*
i) Don’t hit on anyone when you approach!*
l) Do a take away to make them appreciate your time
i) Show a willingness to walk away
m) Opener->Neg->Continue and finish opener->Start material->Neg->Next thread->Stop-> Finish your last thread
n) Don’t seek rapport with your target while opening, it lowers your value*
o) When delivering routines make big motions to gain attention, this is social proof
p) It is the amateur who hits on the girl right away, pros wait ten minutes**
q) The game is played in comfort, not attraction. Attraction is just a tool to lead you along the way***
i) Get in comfort ASAP!*
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