A2: Female to Male Interest

1)      A2: Female to Male interest (2-10 minutes)

2)      Goal: Create attraction**

3)      A2 ends once she’s interested in you (touching you, asking you questions about yourself, etc.)

a)      DHV – Use humor* > Play the part

b)      Story telling*

c)      AMOGing- Alpha Male of the Group*

d)     Cocky and funny*

e)      Push and pull – Give and take. Show a willingness to walk away***

f)       Must ask “So how do y’all know each other?”*

i)        Confirm relationship with the woman if the guy says they’re together

g)      Lead the men and the women will follow*

i)        A girl’s attraction circuitry is honed toward social hierarchy

(1)   This is where pivots come in

(a)    Pivot – Girl you bring with you to assist you in meeting new women

(i)     Pivots rip open sets

ii)      Lead men with stories (No sexuality when telling guys stories)

h)      Initially we IOD, only after she’s earned it do we IOI

i)        Demonstrate a higher value and make her IOI*

ii)      Receiving IOI’s in A2 is a MUST***

i)        DHV to obstacles so we don’t appear to be after the target

j)        Frame Games*

i)        Frame control – When people try to pull you into their frame of reality

(1)   When 2 people interact, the person with the stronger model of reality wins

(a)    Females are attracted to stronger frames

k)      Just peek her interest and lay back and say “So who are you, what makes you special?”*

l)        She needs to win you over**

m)    Start kino in the first minute and a half of A2

i)        Kino steps

(1)   Arm in arm

(2)   Hands touching

(3)   Embracing

(4)   Embracing from behind

(5)   Sitting on lap

(6)   Arm around waist

(7)   Touching face

(8)   Smelling hair

(9)   Hand on ass

(10)  Kissing/nibbling on neck

(11)  Kissing lips

(a)    Make out in 5-10 minutes if you really wanna push it

ii)      Kino should feel comfortable for both of you*

(1)   Talk to her while you make the kino escalation, keeping her mind occupied*

n)      Neg***

i)        Tease her. If she starts to touch you, playfully brush her away. No matter what, don’t back down

ii)      Don’t compliment her (That’s for A3)!***

o)      Challenge her, keep her guessing!*

i)        Be vague and mysterious*

(1)   Don’t reveal yourself completely. If she’s interested, she’ll dig and dig for all the information possible*

(a)    Ask fewer questions and make more statements

p)      Don’t try to get anything from them, be the life of the party and give them what they want*

q)      Use jealousy plotlines

i)        Give her a lock in prop and move to another set

(1)   Only target gets a lock in prop*

(2)   Giving a girl a lock in prop (while time bridging) increases the likelihood of seeing her again

ii)      She won’t know she’s attracted to you until she’s jealous**

iii)    She won’t get jealous until she’s comfortable**

(1)   Playful builds comfort***

r)       Time bridging – Goal  is to see her again

i)        Your time bridge should be something that you are going to do anyway where she can tag along

(1)   Have a stock time bridge ready (Comedy show)

(a)    We should hang out sometime isn’t a proper time bridge

ii)      When you’re with her, solidify the other side of the time bridge

iii)    Get the time bridge solidified first, then go for the bounce. If the bounce doesn’t work, then you still have the  number

(1)   Push for the bounce

(2)   What you do and what you plan to do don’t have to be the same

iv)    Always try to have her come to your place on day 2. Then, calibrate comfort levels to see if you have to leave or not