Kino Escalation

1)      Formal Kino – “I won’t hurt you.”

a)      Handshake*

b)      Pound

2)      Friendly Kino – “I respect you.”

a)      Shoulder pat*

b)      Back pat

c)      Upper arm poke

d)     Upper arm squeeze

e)      Wrist pat

f)       Knee pat*

g)      Knee squeeze*

h)      Hand rest on close shoulder

i)        Forearm rest on close shoulder

j)        Cheek pinch

k)      Hand kiss (politely)

l)        Hand to forehead touch

m)    Butt pat*

3)      Sensual Kino – “I like you.”

a)      Finger play*

b)      Hand holding*

c)      Hand resting on far shoulder*

d)     Extended hand kiss

e)      Caresses*

f)       Massage*

g)      Hand play*

4)      Intimate Kino – “I love you.”

a)      Kissing*

b)      Sex*

c)      Etc.

5)      Other Escalations

a)      Back of hand shoulder touch*

b)      Palm of hand shoulder touch*

c)      Double hand clasp*

d)     Hug*

e)      Hand holding*

f)       Sit on lap*

g)      Smelling*

h)      Biting*

i)        Hair pulling*

j)        Tongue sucking

k)      Kissing*

l)        Making out*

m)    Foreplay*

n)      Sex*

6)      40 kino moves

a)      Perform step*

b)      Sense for discomfort and release*

c)      Release to a new conversational thread*

d)     Kino escalation is composed of a series of advances. Each advance needs to be evaluated for its result before making another advance. These advances result in:

i)        Collapse – Partner becomes frigid and cold. A complete shut out.

ii)      Contraction – Kino acceptance is reduced to a lower level, but is still repairable. A small punishment for crossing the line.

iii)    Maintenance – Kino level is maintained.

iv)    Expansion – Kino is accepted. Your partner will now accept the next highest kino level.

v)      Acceleration – A kino explosion. Every form of kino is accepted and encouraged. She’ll most likely start kino too.

7)      Start in A2 (first minute and a half)*

8)      Kino should feel comfortable for both of you***

a)      It should be normal for you to touch, ALL NATURAL***

i)        No move should have this awkward tension/build up, it shouldn’t be a big deal***

(1)   Create a frame where it’s weird if you don’t touch her*

b)      Kino tests comfort levels

i)        When you sense a woman feels discomfort from your kino step, release her discomfort and show disinterest

ii)      All about calibration***

(1)   If a woman is uncomfortable touching your hands or hugging you, she won’t feel comfortable kissing you

(2)   The secret to kino isn’t in moving forward, but taking away a move**

(a)    Talk to her about the take away*

(i)     1 step forward, 2 steps back*

iii)    Talk to her while you make the escalation, keep her mind occupied*

9)      There is a right and wrong way to touch because touching telegraphs interest

a)      Just touch, don’t leave yourself on her***

b)      Don’t look at her when you touch her**

c)      Pulling creates resistance, so push instead, but only .5-2 inches and hold for a second before releasing**

d)     Telegraph being  a playful, touchy guy***

e)      Stay loose with your touch

10)  You create tension, you push it away

a)      Make her chase you*

11)  Roll off – push, hand throw, back turn, etc.*

12)  Don’t make it seem like you’re punishing her. Do it in a way where it seems you don’t even notice, just naturally brush her off.

a)      Grab her hands, if you sense uncomfortable tension in her musculature, throw her hands off in a dismissive manner to cause discomfort*

i)        Throwing her hands off rather than just letting go will make her revalidate herself and chase you “Alright you’re losing me.”*

(1)   Pity pat

13)  Ask for small bits of compliance, a lot of compliance makes her feel like she’s giving it away too easy (aka slutty). No good.*

a)      Always lead little by little

b)      One step at a time – “Let me see your hand. Stand up. Spin around,” Then IOI for her compliance “Very nice. You’re so graceful.”*

i)        Calibrate every IOI with an IOD

(1)   Tell her “That’s all you get. Don’t get any ideas. Don’t let your mind wander. Hands off. Watch the hot spots.”*

(a)    Tell her “Hands off.” Once or twice then let her touch all she wants*

(i)     Don’t neg or IOD while escalating*

14)  Hug her after neg warfare and throw her off

a)      Qualify her for standing up for herself “Oh, you’re amazing, come here! *hug*” Calibrate with an IOD*

i)        Say to obstacle, “This is called flirting.” And throw one more neg

15)  Don’t cross line from kino to foreplay!*

16)  Kissing is a step that will require release*

17)  Knee Compliance Test: Put her hand on your knee and let go***

a)      If she pulls away, shut up and give negative body language

b)      If/when she reinitiates chat, put her hand back

i)        If her hand stays, reward her with an IOI

18)  You MUST risk going kino or land in the friend zone***

19)  Small hands/feet***

20)  Handshakes routine***

21)  Thumb Wrestling routine***

22)  Body Back Writing***

23)  Hands calibration – take a step back to see if she steps towards you***

24)  Palm Reading***

25)  Tension Test – Rub her neck and act like you found a knot. Put her arms around your neck, rub her back and push her off (C1)***

26)  TV Test – ONE STEP AT A TIME! – Take one hand and then take the other (arms form an X, spin her ½ and wrap your arms around her neck/shoulders (embrace from behind), and say “Imagine we’re hanging out watching TV, what show are we watching?” Multiple thread (helps hold her longer). End by saying “Show’s over.” And push her off (C1 Wobble)***