A3: Male to Female Interest

1)      A3: Male to Female Interest (7-10 minutes)

2)      Goal: Bait her into demonstrating her own value. This makes her seem like you’re attracted to her charm or personality, not her looks*

3)      A3 ends once you have rapport, move to C1

a)      Hoop theory*

i)        A hoop is a request someone makes of you

(1)   Ways to deal with a hoop***

(a)    Make her jump through yours first

(b)   Jump into her hoop

(c)    Ignore the hoop

ii)      Don’t jump through hers unless she jumps through yours first

(1)   Example – If you do an impression and a girl asks you to do it again make her do a spin before you do the impression

b)      Bait-hook-reel-release**

c)      Qualify her*

d)     Have standards

e)      Any time you ask yourself what phase you’re in, it’s usually A3*

f)       CRUBIAL PHASE**

i)        Takes place in isolation. Have a move planned*

(1)   “I’ve kinda been alienating your creepy friend here, is it okay if I talk to her for a few minutes? We’ll be over here come join us if you want, we’ll keep a seat waiting.”***

(2)   Oversell what you’re going to show her in isolation to get her alone

(a)    Kino test: Hand hold (How tight? Holding how? Step away from her, does she step towards you?)

(b)   Sit 2 feet away in isolation.

ii)      Mirror opposite of A2**

(1)   Make her feel like she’s won you

(a)    Give her reason to believe you’re interested in her beyond her looks***

(i)     Don’t spoil the pick up by making it easy, let her do work*

1.      Girls know they need to do work to get prize guys

a.       If you’re easy, she’ll think she misjudged you and move on

iii)    You need to get IOI’S*

(1)   Make her earn your IOI’S*

(a)    Only IOI for nonphysical reasons*

(i)     Make sure to release after IOI (3x)***

g)      Check for qualification by asking “So what do you have going for you more than your looks?”*

i)        If she answers this question, you’re in A3 and reward her with  an IOI

(1)   If she doesn’t answer, neg her and resume A2

h)      We don’t need to memorize word for word stories, just concepts and main points*

i)        Memorize themes, not stories

ii)      Interesting material makes us interesting

(1)   In stories, aim to convey sexuality without sexual neediness

i)        Forward merge – Bringing a girl from the last set to open a new one

j)        Backwards merge – Introducing the new girl to your friends or previously opened set

k)      Once she’s attracted to you, start throwing in sexual jokes*

l)        Listening is VERY important!***

m)    Kino escalate and test comfort levels***

n)      Be done with attraction in 18-30 minutes***

i)        Plan on getting a number in that time*